If you love someone, you must be prepared to set them free…
When relationships get hard, we log on and get high off false sense of security, appreciation and understanding of social media. We value our worth based on our Inbox messages, followers and comments filled with colorful words that have no depth.
Don’t forget that walking away is brave. The moment you start to wonder if you deserve better. It’s like standing on broken glass, if you stand there too long then you’ll keep hurting.
When love what you have, you have everything you need.
You can’t just give up on someone because the situation is not ideal.
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Be brave enough to say, his is not what I want
You can’t calm the storm, so stop trying. What you can do is calm yourself, the storm will pass. Stay away from people who can’t take responsibility for their actions. Toxic people condition you to believe the problem isn’t the abuse, but instead your reactions to their abuse.
A bad relationship can make you doubt everything good you ever felt about yourself. If you’re in a relationship and all you do is cry, you need to stop and ask yourself, if you’re dating a human or an onion?
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Trust, Love and A Whole Lot of Sex
Lust feels like love until it’s time to make a sacrifice. Lust is when you love only what you see. Love is when you lust for what’s inside. The more we are filled with thoughts of lust, the less we find true romantic love.
Desiring to have sex with someone before marriage is not love, but lust. Don’t let good sex confuse the heart and make you think you’re in love. Real love is blind and not easily to find.
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True Love Never Ends
No relationship is sunshine, but two people can share one umbrella and survive the storm together. A healthy relationship is built on unwavering trust. Death cannot stop love, it can only delay it for a while.
It’s not meant to be easy. Love doesn’t appear on command. It doesn’t let you fall for whomever you’d like. It pairs you with someone you never have expected and put you face to face with endless obstacles.
“Each day I love you more, today more than yesterday and less than tomorrow.”
“Being In Love With Every Moment Spent”
Meanwhile, the person who loves you when there’s no filter on your face, becomes an option. Don’t lose what is real chasing what only appears to be.
Great relationships are not great because they have no problems. They are great because (As a Couple) you have to care enough about the other person to find a way to make it work.
"Look, you want to know what marriage is really like? Fine. You wake up, she's there. You come back from work, she's there. You fall asleep, she's there. You eat dinner, she's there. You know? I mean, I know that sounds like a bad thing, but it's not."
—Everybody Loves Raymond
"Good luck finding somebody to put up with your shit for more than, like, six months. Okay? But I accept the whole package, the crazy and the brilliant. Alright? I know you're not gonna change and I don't want you to. It's called accepting you for being you."